Monday, August 9, 2010

Letting Go of Unhealthy Sacrifice



I know that I usually blog about other blogs that I think you would find interesting but technically I suppose Oprah's Online magazine would be considered a blog. My sissy sent me the link to this article: 10 Steps to Letting Go of Unhealthy Sacrifice (she knows me). I must admit the article hurt. LOL! I didn't really want to read it and I knew my sister sent it to me to help me but dang it! It really got to the heart of several matters for me including: not telling people what I really want, being authentic, giving too much of myself, my "yes" maybe meaning yes, but usually was originally intended to mean "no" (yeah), and even the accursed feeling guilty for being happy when others are not (what it that, really?). I recommend that you to also take the Sacrifice (Martyr) test and see where you are before you read the article. So, here's the article. I hope you get to read it and I really hope that if you are one of these people (like unto myself) that you will benefit from it. Happy blogging!

4 comments:

Wanda said...

Oh CeCe a good dose of medicine rarely taste well going done but it has so many benefits. Thanks for the link. BTW, it's good to hear your personal thoughts on this blog as well. You have much to share with others. Although highlighted others is good, too.

CeCe Wilson said...

Thanks Wanda :0) I didn't like hearing what I already knew at first, but honestly I knew that the article would heal so many things that I have been talking about (and complaining about) for years but couldn't find out why and how to fix. It actually did more for me with opening up to my spouse as well. Thanks for stopping in!

LisaShaw said...

Hi CeCe,

I think Wanda's words above say it perfectly!!! I said a prayer for you...

Bless you!

CeCe Wilson said...

Thanks Lisa! I do enjoy writing and expressing myself through blogging. I think this time around I am taking a little break from writing personally in order to get out and "mingle." That's something I didn't really know how to do when I first started this blog. I appreciate the words of encouragement from both you and Wanda and I definitely covet your prayers ;0)

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